My goal with this blog is to help others. I know reading about other people who have gone through similar situations as me helped me alot. I hope hearing my story and how i have been since I lost Zoey helps not just women that are going through it but anyone that knows someone who has had a loss. It seems like so many people have experienced a loss but that not many people talk about it. I know when I first got pregnant I knew a miscarriage could happen but thought I was in the clear at 22 weeks. I know the doctors don't want to scare people but i feel like they should have told me a little more. Especially what pre term labor was and what to look out for.
For Women in the SF bay area i wanted to let you know about a group called H.A.N.D. A couple weeks after we lost Zoey, Mike and i went to a meeting for people who had a loss. It was very helpful to us to get to talk about everything we were going through with people who had been through it. We found out about it from the hospital. They had given us a packet of papers with a bunch of information on loss and in there was a HAND newsletter with stories and stuff. If you are interested their website is http://www.handsupport.org/. They also have a support group for women who are pregnant again after a loss.